Weight gain Not caring so much about your appearance Not wearing make-up Allowing the kids to come first Wearing frumpy clothes Too tired for sex
All of these above I am guilty of. Although my husband always told me that he prefered me without makeup.
The ow does not wear makeup either and she dresses manly or frumpy. Before my H's mlc he did not find the ow attractive. I don't think it was her so called beauty he fell in love with. He fell in love with her because the way she made him feel, like a king. She does not have the day to day responsibilites like I had so she was able to be all fun and give him her undivided attention. So it was not the physical beauty he was attractive to.
And I did make a lot of these changes but it did not matter. Maybe it just goes to show it's more about them then about us.
