Yes, always act happy even if things suck and try to wait for her to make contact first and try not to respond immediately. You have to take things slow, believe me.
If you haven't ask about MC you might start looking into that. Getting them back is the easy part, keeping them is where the real work comes in. My W came back twice and is gone again right now. You just never know.
Seriously you must have great patience, for her to leave & come back a few times - where do you draw the line because once they've established that they can leave and come back repeatedly, don't you just become a revolving open door - what will make her stay if she knows she can pick up & leave anytime and come back anytime because you'll always be there waiting?
Doesn't that mess with your heart? It would definitely hurt mine enough to say enough is enough, if you're going to leave & come back all the time, next time you leave, don't come back.
