I was absolutely shocked that someone would ask me such a thing about another poster and on that particular poster's thread no less. It is not my place to find fault w/another. Each person must choose their own path and follow it. If someone asks for my thoughts on their situation, I will be happy to respond, but I will not be put in such a position as the one that was put to me on M's thread.
I want to set the record straight...I post to a lot of posters here on this board and do not consider myself close w/any one in particualr. I do not communicate w/any of the posters off the board via email, FB or phone, except for two who do not post here regularly. Therefore, I can only go by what is posted here.
I ask that you do not put me in such a position again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.