Originally Posted By: IRMAC
......but what is wrong with her? I know she has unconditional love for her H but good gosh he HAS taken this cakeeating to a whole new level...and I know as we all do in here how she feels....she has been at this for a long time...but I have noticed she has an excuse for him for everything.She always sounds like she is trying to CONVINCE herself that she is ok....but he is breaking her ...always an excuse when it comes to him.

I know we are suppose to stand with God and let him work on our husbands but he has also set us free because of the adultery...seems to me she is scared to just let him go...she is always saying that she has let go... but has she really?

I would post to her but I dont want her to have her feelings hurt and she doesnt know me as she does you.sorry if stepped over the line here,I guess I am just venting


I decided to post today in support of MWG.

IRMAC, I hope as you read this you use a kind tone and not an angry one. You see I was surprised at the post you wrote on MWG thread to Snodderly. You write it in such a way to dehumanize MWG. Asking things like "what's wrong with her?" ARE out of place and disrespectful. It’s not easy standing for your marriage. Many many people think there is something wrong with all of us.

I have known MWG a long time know. We communicate primarily off the site. She has helped me in so many ways to not make mistakes regarding the interactions with my husband and you know what? I have constant positive interactions with him. She used her past experiences and mistakes to help me avoid them. That is invaluable. I trust her judgment, I know that she seeks God for advice. That may seem to some that something is wrong with the believer but that is what faith is all about.

Faith is believing in things UNSEEN.

A person's stand for marriage is constantly under attack from people who do not understand. It’s even more difficult when people who claim to be supportive are not. The other posters did not personally attack MWG. Reread your post IRMAC.

Not all Christians have the same view as you when it comes to Marriage. Not everyone believes that we are set "free" Paul states that we are bound to our spouses till one of us dies.

Its funny you mention Rejoice Ministries. One of Charlyne's favorite sayings is to "zip the lips." Bob speaks AGAINST boundaries ALL the time. He constantly says that when people say a stander is being a doormat that we are being "welcome home mats."