Itsy, I'm w/Jack on this one. Unless he's contacted you and has acted like a civil human being, why in the world would you want to contact him now? I think you should just step back and if he wants to reconnect w/you....let him. That's the way mlcers are doing things...reconnecting with you, not the other way around. I don't think he's even close to being pleasant all of the time and you do not need to hear his anger and sprew right now.
Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
