new to db'ing, my first post ...

[RobD70]

Yes, always act happy even if things suck and try to wait for her to make contact first and try not to respond immediately. You have to take things slow, believe me.

If you haven't ask about MC you might start looking into that. Getting them back is the easy part, keeping them is where the real work comes in. My W came back twice and is gone again right now. You just never know.