I am also a sucker with H when it comes to sex...partly because we too had a great sex life and partly to be close to him. I informed him the other day though that once the D is final there will be no more sex with me. I told him that D is closing a chapter in my life and at that time I will move on.
He basically told me that he could convince me otherwise when it comes to sex. Well I have news for him...NOT going to happen.
My boundary now has to start tomorrow....I just blew it for today.
I went by to pick up D7 and things started out ok. We both got our papers to file taxes and plan to file together. So we talked about that first. Getting things together,when we can file,etc.
Well here is something I don't think I have posted yet. H lost his job Dec 2nd. Not a HUGE deal because he was doing his profession on the side and made more money that way than at his job anyway. BUT...he lost his job because he was spending too much time on the phone (yes with OW). He thinks they just wanted to get rid of him (denial) but that is not the case. He was the best they had. Sent him to school for all kinds of advancement and he had been moved up and had been there for 8 years. He was warned before about the calls.
So...our S papers state that H is to keep D7 on insurance. He is responsible for that. Well he loses job,loses insurance. I have been reminding him repeatedly to check out this insurance online here locally for her. He kept saying he would. Never did. Yesterday morning he told me that was his TOP priority for the day as he had nothing else to do.
I forgot to ask him about it yesterday so I asked today while I was there. He said he had not had a chance to do it yet. I asked why. He said he did not know but he would get on it today. About that time D7 comes around the corner and tells me that daddy talked to OW the whole time he was picking her up and all the way home.Then his phone starts ringing and it is none other than OW. Well that made my head get hot and I let loose.
Basically told him that I know the reason he did not get the insurance handled was because he was too busy talking to OW (did not give up how I knew) and of course he denied that. Asked him is there ever a time when he is with D7 that he gets to spend QUALITY time with D7 without OW calling. He said yes all the time. I called him a lier (that is the nicer version of what I actually called him). Told him that we both know that is a lie. He said "whatever" and told me to leave.
I told him that if he does not give me a date by the end of the week (tomorrow) as to when he wants to file taxes that I am going to file by myself and get it done.
Our S papers state that I am the one to claim D7 therefore I do not have to wait for him. I can file without him. I told him to e-mail me the results of the insurance hunting and DO NOT CALL MY PHONE.
"Sigh".....ok i feel a little better now. Sorry this is so long but I had to vent. I am sure I left something out but I will think of it later. How am I going to stay sane???????
