We talked a little more last night. Because she wants to be moved before school starts things might be really fast. She said something about this being sudden. (My head almost exploded. She has been out of the room at least two years, hasn't ML for for. Won't accect a kiss. Hasn't hugged in forever. And it is sudden?) I asked if she saw anything that would change it. She asked if I was going to clean up more around the house. In her mind, it really is all about housework! Then she said something about how she thought we were ticking along. Supporting my theory that she was perfectly content witht the way things are, and isn't really interested in changing them. I think my letter made it clear that I was willing to try to work on things. She has made it clear that she isn't.
I think I may be feeling more relief than I realized. The next few months will be really stressful. But the idea of sweeping the eggshells out of the house is pretty attractive!
