Today at work one of the girls was telling me how she is sick of her Husband, he doesn't pay attention to her, he is controlling and the usual blah, blah, blah stuff.
Then came the usual .....And I have feelings for someone else.
So, I asked her what the "other person" gives her that her Husband doesn't.
Anyway, this is what got me thinking..
On your Wedding Day you probably looked your best.
And then what happened throughout the years?
Weight gain Not caring so much about your appearance Not wearing make-up Allowing the kids to come first Wearing frumpy clothes Too tired for sex Fast food for dinner
The list goes on and on.
I guess my point is this...
We all have things we need to change. We all have character flaws.
We can all make ourselves look better, which will in fact make us feel better, which will give you a feeling of self confidence.
I also know that I will receive the argument.."But my Husband never complained about my weight, or me allowing my hair to go grey, or not wearing make-up"
That may be true....
But... if there is OW in the picture, more then likely she is paying alot more attention to her looks, and to your Husband then you were.
Maybe it is superficial and shallow, but Men are attracted to physical beauty first. It is how they are made, they can't help it. They notice Women.
This post isn't to offend anyone here, it is just food for thought.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
