As in life, everything is for a reason and everything plays out the way it is supposed to.
I think skating on Saturday as a family is probably a bad idea. As it turns out our D is through the roof happy about it and there lies the problem. I just can't hurt my daughter because I am being selfish and want to spend time with my W.
You are right I have to get back to working on myself and not be so focussed on my W. It 'may" be a different situation if she had initiated us going out one on one but that was not the case.
My W and I are going to talk about the skating thing tonight. I have already told her I uncomfortable about it as I can't risk hurting my daughter. I am sure we will cancel it. I will be able to help my daughter understand.
Oh well, 2 x 4 to me to get back on track.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09