WAW - yet another one

[dday101798]

Well, your odds are still better than most of us, so just tread carefully. Definatley, back off, give her some 'breathing room'. Instead of thinking of what can you do to keep her around, concentrate on the things that you say or do (or in this case, don't do) that make her not want to stay.

I cetainly think going with the LRT is the WRONG thing to do. She seems willing to work for it, and she seems to have been asking for something of you, but you're not understanding or hearing the request, maybe the counselor can be the translator and get you to see and hear what she's been asking for and perhaps offer up a reason to her why you didn't get the message?