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Just be here to bounce things off of..I am about to enter the hard part of all this as I detach from the woman I love.


You got it, Jeff. Rest assured, it is usually the people who's ballz I busted the hardest that I check back with the most. I won't leave you hanging.

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I installed the Eblaster software on the laptop.. Very cool. I have work to do on the Mac. If we separate I will need to configure it for remote access. So once thats done I will be covered.


Did you get the new version 9.0? Tons of great new enhancements in there, including being to REMOTELY change any of your settings!

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So I will sit back and work the plan. Were the weekends the hardest times for all of you all? That's when I seem to struggle the most.


AB-SO-FRIGGING-LUTELY. Without a doubt. My wife and I have since had some good laughs over this, but we used to each drive around the curve in our street and CRINGE in our guts when we would see the other one's car in the driveway! Our weekdays schedules were full and hectic enough that we learned some great routines to avoid each other almost completely, and still take good care of the kids. But the weekends were MUCH more difficult, and I used to get very depressed on Friday afternoons right when all my co-workers were looking FORWARD to their weekends (as I used to!).

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Working out again. That helps with the sleep factor.


I was working out about 5 days a week during my sitch -- GREAT for the bod, and for avoiding my wife! And yes, definitely helped me sleep better as well!

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Funny thing is that she is using the laptop now...I think she realizes every time she did her thing on the mac she got caught. So the next couple of days will be insightful. She was ok tonight but withdrawn. Puppy the remote option is much better than having to login directly on the computer ...Liking the Eblaster..


I suspect you won't have to wait very long -- at all. Sure you can handle it? My doc gave me two different types of ADs -- one for long-term, "even me out" kinda thing, but the other because I had had two anxiety attacks. One was when I got my first keylogger e-mail that turned up my wife Googling "sexual positions" and "older women younger men". The second one was when I saw them hook up in a parking lot, get into one car, and drive to his house. UGH. Anyway, those "BREAK GLASS WHEN NEEDED!" type meds can be a big help when you think you might face some really damaging intel.

Puppy