If the mountain represents the huge block between us, I am still on my way down I think. Things have been going very well between us day to day. We no longer blame, argue, feel alone. We are very friendly and W is more trusting of my intentions when I hug her or touch her non-sexually.
To continue the analogy, a nice warm campfire would improve the trek tremendously, but right now I am just going to have to accept that there is no spark and no fuel to make one. *Brrr*
I must say I am feeling optimistic though, I never understood what was going on before and how I was making matters worse. More to come on that later tho, short on time right now.
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
