Thanks Puppy:)
I will try that one the next time it happens and see how it goes. I did real well this morning with my boundary that I am starting. H called me on my way to work and I said nothing about OW and neither did he:)

I was prepared for him to say something but did not. Of course he had not talked to her yet today either. But I will have to go pick up D7 from him shortly and that will be the test.