The donkey story: I feel like my marriage suffered like the donkey of a Greek story whose greedy master kept making the animal work and work and work, started forgetting to feed him or give him water and at the end the animal just died and left the man sad, helpless and in remorse... We say it "we f@75cked it hard and it died". Excuse my language. H thought that my love and our M could take anything and he took his time and waited and waited and when he thought he was done I think the "animal" surprised him and died. I am doing CPR but isnt working...