So H is in Florida for a week at a conference. What a relief. But not before a flurry of emails in which he was griping about my income not being sufficient. As usual, he said he'd be happy to have D if I need to work additional hours.
And what would happen then, is that my support payments--minimal as they are--would be cut and I'd end up gone more and still in the same place financially, and D would be exposed to more craziness. Yes, I probably do need to find a job that pays me in a way more commensurate with my experience. But I have a feeling that when the time is right, the appropriate job will turn up. Meanwhile, I don't have the feeling that H is living on pasta and ramen noodles.
Last edited by hoosiermama; 01/29/0905:56 PM.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
