The Jealousy Button (men only)

[RobD70]

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WAS never really take that into account and I think in the back of their mind they see us as safety nets (that they hope to never use) to fall back on if they get in over their head. We have to take that away from them.

It of course helps us to detach in case they don't come back so it's win-win. My biggest issue is motivation since I don't feel like dating but I know I need to. There is some guilt as it makes me think about how my W met her OM but I'm pushing through that so I can make her experience what I went through.

That reminds me of another story. This guy was dating a serial cheater (she cheated like 7 times, just PAs). One time she went out of town and cheated on him BUT at the same time HE ended up hooking up with some chick he met at Sonic. Well she found out and it tore her apart (even though she did the same thing) and after that she stopped all her cheating. She had no idea the effect it had on the other person until she went through it herself. I think the WAS are in the same boat, they have no idea what we are going through. It's time they learned.