Hey M... I wondered if you need more fun, or lightness, with H.. its like theres this weight of responsibility, or weighing it all up, but doesnt it say in DB/DR something about, after an S, just make sure you have nice times and fun together and NOT talk about the S? That you can set aside a time to talk, but make room for positive new experiences together? But then, you dont get to see your H much anyway!
Is it harder to even make a decision about rebuilding the R, if you dont DO stuff with him to see how you feel around him? Like hang out, chat, go for a walk, a meal, or a coffee...?
Of course, that doesnt fit with the MC advice anyway, who said, dont do anything on the R, or that you dont want to do!! And he is too busy besides. Sounds like your H is fading from your future 'vision' though.. Big Al xxxx
