The Jealousy Button (men only)

[Phoenixdeux]

I have to say it. It's about rose colored glasses. This may come as a shock, but your wife isn't "all that and a bag of chips" and your marriage likely wasn't picture perfect prior to the bomb. If you were really honest with yourself, your wife is probably a fairly piss poor match at the moment. She's pretty self-centered and maybe has more than a few screws loose. Why shouldn't you do a little comparative looking around. I think it helps to see that. We need a little kick so we think, "why am I pining away for this woman. She's the one cheating and running around like a teenager. Why shouldn't she be chasing me?"

P.S. When I said "your wife", I wasn't talking about anyone in particulars wife.