Midwestern Girl 1/25/09

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See how you attack if anyone says anthing negative about him... yes we are suppose to say nothing negative about our husbands or go gossiping to our friends.Dont get me wrong here, in what I am saying and this is exactly why I didnt want to say anything if I have offended you I am really sorry....doesnt it ever cross your mind he is trying to keep one foot inside the door???? that has never crossed your mind... nobody has ever said that to you????

people in here know you.....you call each other....i wonder how many would really tell you what they see....I dont know you and yes you can say how I could of said those things because I dont know you....and you can do whatever you want to do with your circumstances...we all come in here not to judge but sometimes when we have been in this as long as you have sometimes we need another set of eyes....I am a christian woman who believes God can do anything but like I said he has freed us because of adultery.....as much as I want my husband back and I do pray everyday for him and everybody in here I will not allow him to walk all over me...no calls no emails nothing.he doesnt come and go whenever he pleases sometime i wanted to have my H close by so we could at least see him as you do your H but now I am thinking this way is a blessing,doesnt mean that I cant speak my mind.....I did address this to snodderly but I knew you would read it....this is just what I see...it is your life and I never meant to offend you.....please accept my apologies...but I was just speaking from the heart.But this is exactly what I am talking about you do lash out when we say anything bad maybe not lash out but defend him.... sorry it took so long to answer but I had to go work so I am just know sitting at my desk....I will keep praying for you ......and when people react to the truth most of time it is because it is the truth...