This thread is something I've been wondering about for some time. I have no desire to go out and date at the moment but I would think about it if I thought it may help with my sitch. I'm heading out with some friends this weekend for a few drinks to take my mind off things. A couple of these friends are women. I have absolutely no intention of making a pass at either of these women as they're just close friends. I live in a very small community though and have no doubt that some of my W's friends will see me out. I intend to enjoy my night as much as I can anyway, but if it was reported back to my W that I seemed to be having an amazing time in the company of women, it intrigues me to think this may make a difference. I'll definitely have to post back afterwards to let everyone know how it turns out. Also, we're planning on starting the night at my house. My W's grandmother lives next door to me so it may be interesting to see if she passes on that she saw a couple of women coming to my house.

What an excellent thread. Well done Gucci.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.