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I don't plan on getting physical with anyone until the D is finally but I don't see the harm in casual dating.



You got it. THAT is what I have been saying. It can only help you. It levels the field so to speak. Your WAW may finally understand how it FEELS. You get an ego boost. She feels you letting go and starts to wonder for the first time in a long time if she is making a huge mistake. Especially after she has seen you try so hard to make these changes that another woman may now benefit from...

I still see it on this site and around my personal life that women are very competitive in this area..

I guess if it has a possiblilty as being a tool that can work (and I have seen it work often) then I think a man is silly and not seeing clearly to not at least use it....

A tool is a tool.. The right tool for the right job..