Our house hasn't sold so the financial terms of the divorce (CS & A) haven't kicked in. Basically, I'm responsible for all. Hasn't been bad since she quit going to bars and burning money like it was going out of style. For the most part she hasn't been hitting me up for money that I didn't feel like was fair.
Thanks for the quick response G!
See above, Child Support & Alimoney haven't kicked in yet because the house hasn't sold. I have to pay ALL expenses at both houses until it does sell. She isn't dragging out the process, she wants to move very badly.
I do have it in our D papers that if she marries or cohabitates then the alimoney ends. Much to her disapproval. That will be the issue once the house sells. I strongly suspect she will move in with BF at that time. Her choice. I'd hate it for my kids but would be great for me in terms of $$. The alimoney is more than the child support.
The additional money I've been giving her isn't a major issue, more of an irritant. My primary concern is the boy staying over that much. If I didn't have three pretty daughters, it wouldn't be as big of a deal. I just feel like I should send her an email in order to "document" that I don't approve. If I say nothing to her, am I not giving tacit approval?
