When my W came back the second time, it was right after she found out about a date I had. She even txt me during the date to tell me it bothered her more than she thought.

I'm talking to women on Match and I just started talking to one lady that would be perfect for getting my W jealous. She's separated also so chances of a long term R is remote but for the time being I'm sure we can support each other. I don't plan on getting physical with anyone until the D is finally but I don't see the harm in casual dating. My problem is my W does not snoop and we are in NC mode so leaking what I'm doing will take effort. I have a plan for that though.

The W don't really believe they will lose you until you start seeing someone else, even if they can't stand you. Women are competitive by nature and this does work. The problem is I don't really want to date and when I think of replacing my W with other woman it kind of sickens me then I think that's what the W did to me. That gets me all kinds of angry and I wonder how my W can sleep at night doing that. That gives me motivation to go through with the dating thing and either her find out through word of mouth or maybe even rub it in her face lol.


Bottom line, yes this works and if you can pull it off do it. If you have to fake it then fake it. Don't let your W think you are waiting around for them. Remember, we all want what we can't have and that goes for them to.


Me:38
W:40
Bomb/EA 03/08
Recon twice
1/09 W files for D
Story