My thought is: if you do date does it make you want your W more or less? If more, then you shouldn't date because you will just miss her more. If less, then maybe its saying something about the strength of your marriage. I assume my WAW is dating/intimate but its out of my control and not my concern. I have to continue to work on improving me and my addressing my issues so I can be healthy for either W or another woman in the future.
