Wayward Wife/MLC or Just Bad Behavior

[fitzge]

kat727

I am having to take the responsibility for the both of us since he doesn't know how to man up.kat

First, to everyone. My posts have centered on ME -- I am here for the words and for the support. That being said, I am sorry that everyone here is dealing with betrayl, crushed spirits, emotional beat downs, and last but not least, the real world financial mess their Ws's have caused. Seems like everyone of these jokers goes off on a spending binge and burns through a life's savings in months.

Mine is off living life large -- paying all the OM's bills, providing him with her vehicle, and wining and dining him.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch, I am responsible for all the earthly mundane things like mortgage, insurance, utilities etc -- there is no free lunch at my place.

SHE is nearly $40,000 in debt TOTAL (all run up in less than 6 months. SHE fully intends that I will be "awarded" half that debt and the court more than likely will support that position.

Basically, SHE misbehaves, and gets the big reward for doing it -- 50% of assets and 50% reduction in debt. And, even with this knowledge, my ISSUE is not about the spending, it's about the affair.