Staying busy is a huge help in not thinking too much. I used to love weekends as a time to relax. Now I find them to be anxiety ridden. Have to keep busy, so when exh is bored and texting I don't play the game.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!