John - I think your partly right by new friend in that she sees that I'm off and thinking i'm going to meet someone and knows she cant just do that.
Yeah, have said about the house before. I'm in there for like 5 mins at drop off and similar at pick up unless the boys not ready on a Sat morning.
I'm seeing both sides of it as MOT35 is in the same spot but on the other side. I just need to figure out a solution and generally just having a bit of a down few days I think, not had many for a long time. Nearly the weekend tho