Here is the dilemma we all face. On one hand we are supposed to get to the friendship stage and hopefully move on to the next stage towards reconciliation YET we are also supposed to lovingly disconnect. Are we to assume that we only get to the friendship stage if our WAS initiates towards friendship????
My W and I text almost everyday over kid issues. We do say appreciative things to one and another. As I mentioned I asked her out and she has accepted for us to go skating with the kids this Saturday. To tell you the truth I am feeling a bit weird about it. My WAW really should have been the one to ask but I thought I would take the reins and ask her.
I am wondering what to do after the skating. Do I sort of go dim and just leave things with the hope that she asks next time? I know we are supposed to just concentrate on ourselves and our kids but when, if ever, do we put energy into getting to the next level?
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
