Last thread locked. It used to take me a week to do that before, so this is progress.
STBX is as about as crazy as I've ever seen her. D16 now wants to live with me. STBX continues to lord SMARMYLAWYERBOSS' Jeep over her, and takes driving away at the drop of the hat. D16 spent last weekend with me, and said her binging and purging were so much easy to control because the atmosphere with me is more relaxed.
STBX sent an email to me asking for 53% of the money for S10's lacrosse fees. That was one of the mediators points. I said fine, and then went on to tell her that I was reducing her support to the figures that the mediator recommended, a full $1400 less than what I have been giving her. I'm tired or her bullying and beat downs of EVERYONE!
I think she also is furious that I have been seeing "Gym Woman", in some bizarre sort of way. My kids love her. It almost seems like she wants to keep the drama alive instead of just getting this divorce over with. Funny, when she was seeing her married boss when I was in Iraq, none of this mattered. Hmmm?