Hi Snodderly....i have posted a time or 2 to you and I know u r close to MWG......but what is wrong with her? I know she has unconditional love for her H but good gosh he HAS taken this cakeeating to a whole new level...and I know as we all do in here how she feels....she has been at this for a long time...but I have noticed she has an excuse for him for everything.She always sounds like she is trying to CONVINCE herself that she is ok....but he is breaking her ...always an excuse when it comes to him.
I know we are suppose to stand with God and let him work on our husbands but he has also set us free because of the adultery...seems to me she is scared to just let him go...she is always saying that she has let go... but has she really?
I would post to her but I dont want her to have her feelings hurt and she doesnt know me as she does you.I think she has been in this for way too long...I posted to her a day or so ago when he made her cry, but now that I have seen you,BND and all the others in here bashing him and with every right,I think she needs to lay down the law...
Set boundaries... firm ones...no more coming and going as he has..he wants to see the children do it elsewhere....do not come in and sit around like he still lives there,as soon as 830 or so comes around he goes back to her...that is bullshit...
I really care for that family and yes she is showing her children that you tough it out no matter what when it comes to your marriage,but come on now this is too much....
I believe in what she is doing but he has it way to easy...she is not going to tell me he has a zero relationship with her.as in intimate....no way...there is still something there for him from her...be a man and decide..this just pisses me off to no end she is such nice young lady.If I had it this way hell yea I would keep doing what he is doing....
Yes,this is MLC,and yes they are sick,but she just has always an excuse no matter what you guys say...she always defends him....ok lets say she puts her foot down..tell her FIL his son is no longer welcome at her home to come and go as he pleases,then ask FIL for help with the house pyts she says her FIL will never let them lose her home. Tell H to pay child support for the rest of the bills H doesnt have to know about how the house is being paid.
She is always reminding us and telling us how H has given her complete control over bank acct for unemployment checks and what have you....so what this means nothing....this is HIS way having one foot in the doorway just in case.
Sorry for such a long post...but I really care for this family..but enough is enough....I know she listens to you all in here who have formed a bond together....this is how I see it..
He came over last night and didnt say a word about nothing what the hell is that.....I know she is scared to totally lose him as so am I with my husband, but damn keep on her...enough is enough..
sorry if stepped over the line here,I guess I am just venting
