At least you gave it some thought. JD is making excuses as he can't help but reply, lol (J/K)
I agree to a point, but there again every sitch is slightly different. In the past I have sent W the odd txt and got no reply whatsoever, so I do that as well. SHE is the one that wanted to remain friends, but only on her terms apparently. Well my terms count too.
As I said, horses for courses. I think that as long as we all give careful thought to whether we should reply or not, then the decision is not made on emotion alone. That is the most important thing.
As far as keeping busy. Well, apart from working, going to the gym, cleaning, washing, ironing and posting on here, I'm sleeping. It's about all I have time for!!