OK, super happy super cool Arthur took a slip last night !!!
Had my boys and S2 a bit poorly and wanted to go home, so I drop him back then spend time with S6. When I drop him off S2 is still up and it's 7.30ish, I thought he was bath and bed from 7 but turns out that is now 8. Anyway, I carry him upstairs for his bath and STBX asked if I want to bath him. Now, yes, I probably should of done but I sort of get the shakes in that house, I can't explain it...does anyone else get that ?. So, I say, I can't I've got plans and then get it thrown at me that I don't even want to see them, when am I going to have them overnight (again) and basically insulting me as a dad. Am I wrong to defend myself when that happens ? If I let it go am I not acting like I'm accepting what's being thrown at me ?
Anyway, spoke to MOT35 about it and she sees my STBX argument and I do to, to an extent, but I cannot afford my own place to have them over with paying the mortgage too, I'm also like to get made redundant in June, my parents will not let me have them over whilst living there and I just could not sit in that house or spend a night in that house while my STBX went out. I'm also a little scared that if I suggest something it starts a precedent. Do you just think I'm making excuses ?
My sister also told me my STBX now has some new bloke who she has met in the chat rooms on FB that she is going on about to the school mums. I think that's a bit innapropriate personally and I'd rather not know. All the mums thinking my boys mum is an old slapper ??? nice.... Not sure if this is also the reason for the new attack, to see more of her new fella which I can understand.
I also think deep down I'm being a bit more stubborn than necessary if I'm honest as she is still being so nasty, spiteful and has not cut me any slack at all.
Also, work is boring the life out of me and then stuck in a room all evening all week drives me crazy. So need to get out my mums but thankfully going round a friends tonight so at least I will get out.
