I have all of these mixed signals going through my head right now.
That's normal. She will probably experience them too, but might not want to talk about it or admit it. I don't care how much a spouse insists they no longer "love" another that's not entirely true. When you have a history, and family together it's inside there. It might be hidden under junk... but it's there.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
