Thank you so much for the new glasses that I needed to remember to wear to see my reality from the proper perspective. It is true that whenever I do bail XW out, I do get the added benefit of being there for my D8 when she needs me. My 'stuff' is not my children's stuff. As our mediator said in the beginning, the children are the innocents in the situation of our crumbling M. Thank you for taking the time to chime in.
Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT! previously hopeful_husband
my A: Fall 05 W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately W pursued D, final 7/11/07