I have been sooooooo mad at H over the last 2 wks. I have really needed him here to help w/ things. My truck wouldn't start 3 differant days, my pipes froze, electrical problems in the bathroom and huge icicle tore off gutter on side of the house.
I have been very very proud of myself. I have not e-mailed or text him in over 2 wks. The last time was an e-mail reply to him saying that he needed to make arrangements to pick something up. I only responded by saying "I will have to talk to my laywer then I will get back to you" He responded the other day with "Why do you have to talk to your laywer? Have you been able to sell anything to help with the finances?" that is the first time he hasn't yelled about something. Also, we (my family) think that things are starting to get rocky for him. He has not worked since 11/13 and the other day my brother got a msg on his phone regarding a referance for a job. Why in the world would he think that my brother would want to give him a referance? Why hasn't he gotten a call like this before? Our thoughts are that the OW has told H that he needs to get a job or he actually just started looking. I can't imagine that things are all wonderful on his homefront, expecially because he has to hid the drinking and she doesn't smoke.
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08
