Thanks I am trying to walk the fine line and not be totally detached. I don't want her to feel that I have given up. It's tough but like we all keep saying it's a marathon. Lately though when I leave her alone she has been staying home more and you call tell her brain is working overtime.
Today she made me some meatloaf and baked some brownies which she gave me to go to work. I just commented that the meat loaf was delicious. She was quiet for the most part but wished me a good night at work. It's hard at this point to be patient but she hasn't been talking about moving out this week (which is good) Damn I when I see her I just want to give her a hug and love her. I just want to tell her that she is beautiful and that I want to wake up each day thinking how I can meet her needs.
All in good time. I will just keep plugging away and see what happens. The past couple of nights I have been home popping in and out to go to the gym etc. Tomorow I am going to a buddies before work but I won't tell her where I am going.
Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
