Vicky, I couldn't have said it any better. Especially this:
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You know what, now that there has been some distance, I feel I AM ALSO RESPONSIBLE FOR THE MADNESS. We allow our H's to continue the lies and to continue to have the triangle love affair. Like you, I use to talk to H about OW and even that I think allowed him to think that its ok, I'm going along with his A and I'm ok with it.
