I have done little things - told kids that I had "plans" right before I dropped them off with W.
Set my MySpace status to "tingly and interested" and my mood as "adored" (W won't know what it is that makes me feel that way)
However, in our marriage, she was unbelievably jealous. There was some lady that apparently liked me - I was clueless. I was directing choir at church, and she would give me a friendly church hug. I never said a word to her, but W flipped out, and told her not to touch me again, and so on. I was so baffled - but women have a "sixth sense".
My point being that it's probably OK to be mysterious. I have told W I would not date - mostly my beliefs.
However, adultery cancels all that, so I'm wide open now!
