As hard as it is, focus on yourself and stay as positive as possible. When my W was away with the K, I didn't realize how empty the house seemed.
The first week I was a wreck...depressed, drank, etc. But then I turned my energies to working out, reading, going out with friends, and having fun with my Ds. It helped to keep me positive through all of this.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.