I am sorry about your brother and mother. When it rains it pours. It will all even out and get better. I can remember thinking that things will never get stable again --- they do. Keep your chin up, Trusting.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11