I really dont know how to put this but I will try. A few times after our divorce my xh and I were intimate. BUT during this time he would set quidelines like. NO KISSING AT ALL during or after (every now and then I would sneak a small peck on the lips). NO HUGGING, and NO foreplay (sorry but I really didnt know how else to say that). NO affection at all just plain ole wham bam. BUT he also made sure I was taken care of if you know what I mean. I ask why and he just says because that is the way its gonna be take it or leave it. And of course I wanted to spend time with him so bad I took it. Why do you think he does this. He says he doesnt do this with no one else. (I shouldnt of been doing this anyway).
