Is there any way you can get your feelers out? Can you text him, or call him with some random question regarding something he'll know? (For instance if he's an acct, ask him something about your taxes...get the idea?) That way you may be able to feel is something is there. You may tell if there is a chance of reconnecting. Ask him while you have him on the phone how he's doing... At this point, it wouldn't hurt.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."