I want to make sure I'm understanding. He expected you to know to take off your stiletto boots and tights in the limo? Or, is that just an example? It seems that he was wishing for you to match his excitement and passion when you saw him, just as he dreamt up. I'm sure you smiled and kissed him and were loving, right? Just the fact that you wore stiletto boots to greet him is showing him the goods. Why does it have to be all 9-and-a-half weeks? (That was meant to provide some comic relief. Not sure if you know that movie.)
You are funny girl. Have never seen the movie 9 1/2 weeks but I did LOL. I knew what you meant.
Ok well first of all yes !!!!!!!~!~! he expected me to take off my boots, tights and get luscious or it meant I did nit care.
He was mad then cause he is waiting and I never deliver the goods...... and we were in my tiny VW. Said to me... you let me down you always f^ck this up.
I don't know, because I'm no expert, but it almost feels like abuse. It's as if he's telling you you're not good enough no matter what you do. And, you can't be a mind reader and guess what his next fantasy is. And then, you're sitting there left stunned and confused, even though you were totally innocent.
Exactly how I felt stunned and confused and ready to cry. Like WTF? did I do?
Is this something that you have discovered already? Yes , but no one ever put it like you... that is exactly how I feel.
I'm sorry, I tried to find old posts for you, but I'm having trouble, so I can only educate myself from late '08 forward.
No worries, I feel ok , I am upset but know I will be ok.
Oh, I am hurting for you. Thanks love....
My husband will be home soon, so I may not be able to post again until the morning. I'll try to sneak and check in before then, though.
