If you are going to file, it would be nice to let him know. If possible, give him the option of being served in your atty's office, so there is no suprise, no one around (saves $ on your end as well). I know you're hoping for a reaction, and you may...or may not get one. Don't use this as a threat. If you tell him you are going to file...then do it.
You need to be prepared no matter what his reaction is to follow through. So, think hard if this is really what you want.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
