Silva,

Perhaps I am wrong in this, only time will tell, but I thought long and hard about returning BF's email. It came down to the fact that I ignored the note he left Mon night and will not be in contact again until Tue at the earliest. I thought being polite was more important at this early stage.

I still don't know if going totally dark is the right way for me yet. I took a big detaching step when I kicked him out of the house. It has helped me a lot to have my personal space back. And I still am detaching as usually I would respond to his email right away. Baby steps!


If you love somebody, set them free.
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