I figured out that I will probably have to do the bankruptcy thing and I am ashamed. I am watching everything I did after getting out of school -- nearly 35 years ago -- being unraveled in the space of 6 months.
I face what I call the PERFECT storm -- divorce final in 3 months, current job probably goes away in 4 months, house on the market for 50 cents on the dollar. So, at some point, I will be unemployed, homeless or living in a cardboard box, and in a situation where no lender will touch me. That is the reality. You've got to love all the damage someone else can inflict in a short time.
I'm tired. Time to go home and pull the covers over my head.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09