Pearl, I have to say, all things being considered, did you REALLY have good reason?
Think about it, was there a question there that needed answering?
My NC was broken today as well, W called as she had sent ne a txt that I didn't get (out of area) and told me her mum was ill. Called doctor and they have taken blood to see what the problem is. W knows I love her Mum and knew I wold want to know.
conversation was stilted, she was very 'polite' and not freindly. She also asked me when I was seeing the mental health nurse about my depression (see my thread for details). I told her I wasn't seeing her as I didn't think she could offer me any help (same level as W as a mental health nurse). she laughed and said. 'thanks!'. Call ended. 2 mins later W called back and asked me not to call her Mum because she would complain that W had told me. I said that I would call, because when you care about someone, you keep in touch (I meant that I cared for MIL and also that W hadn't called me even though she still says she 'cares'.) Double edged comment.
So, called MIL, she says she is not too bad, will let me know results of blood tests.
Txt W, told her "phoned Mum, she didn't complain. Let me know results of blood tests pls. Take Care. X."
She txt back, "thanks, just out with Jim (sons dog) getting some fresh air!. X. "
I can't be bothered to reply to that. I don't really care WHAT she is doing and can't see the point in telling me.
So, back to dark.
Have to say though, that during call from W, even though I was upset about MIL, I didn't enjoy the call at all and wished she had not rung me. I felt crap for a while after the call. Only lasted half hour though so it's getting better
