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That will not happen. I do know for a fact that my FIL would never have me and the kids lose this house.


So presumeably your H knows this as well so if not you then his Dad will just bail him out and allow the life he is living to continue.(even though FIL is supporting you and kids not H it still absolves him of stepping up and being a man)
By that I mean he doesn't have to hit the bottom and do anything like being a man and support and love, care and cherish his family because he knows someone will just pick up the pieces where he fails.
How can this help H or get him to pull his finger out.