Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Quick update.

Went out with W one evening last week. Had a great time. Spent a good couple of hours chatting and having fun.

Sent her an e-mail this morning asking if we could get together and chat about submitting our 2008 tax return. She said she would bring the beers and we would make a party of doing our tax's.
We were supposed to be getting the house ready to put on the market in Feb. There has been no further talk of that or any R related stuff.....and I'm not going to bring it up. I sometimes feel that my bringing this stuff up in the past pushed her into having to make a decision, perhaps before she even knew what she wanted.

I'm still wondering if her total lack of discussion in these areas now is still an indication that she isn't sure what she is wanting.
This has almost been 9mths now and she is still giving me most of her paycheck each month to cover her portion of the mortgage and associated expences....even though she dosn't live at home.

I would have thought she would have wanted to get moving on this so she could free up her income for herself.